Career Development

Disorder

Becoming Suitable for Something Else

When disorder enters your life, it’s not just disruption—it’s transformation in motion. It signals that one form is dissolving, making space for a new one to emerge. Disorder is not a detour; it’s a transition. It means you’re becoming suitable for something else.

Disorder reorients you. It’s the natural consequence of the deep inner work—reflection, self-enquiry, realisation—that precedes any meaningful outer change. It’s a threshold moment. A necessary pause between what was and what’s about to be. Disorder forces us to create a new calm, a new clarity, a new order.

Growth rarely comes without loss. The life structures that hold your current reality—relationships, routines, roles, even geography—were designed by an earlier version of you. As new parts of you emerge and ask to be expressed, the containers of your life shift to accommodate them. What once was a fit may now feel restrictive. You’re expanding—and your life will need to expand with you.

Impermanence is part of life’s design.

Just as nature moves through seasons and products evolve through cycles, we too must adapt. Embracing this truth—accepting that all things pass, and change is inevitable—helps us let go with less fear and more grace.

3 Takeouts: Becoming Suitable for Something Else

1. Hold On to Your North Star

Like its celestial namesake, your personal North Star offers a fixed point of guidance amid the storm. It’s your vision, your values, your dreams. When disorder strikes, let this inner compass pull you forward. The mess may be momentary—but your North Star is constant.

2. See Disorder as Preparation

Disorder isn’t destruction—it’s groundwork. It clears out the old to make space for the new. Think of it as the moment your future shakes hands with your present. It may feel like chaos, but it’s also construction. The discomfort is part of the design.

3. Break It Down

When everything feels out of control, zoom in. What is still working? A morning walk, a daily ritual, a conversation with a friend—these can be anchors. Your entire life isn’t in disarray; parts of it are simply rearranging. Find the pieces that still bring you stability and let them ground you.

Disorder isn’t the end—it’s the invitation to begin again, stronger and truer to who you’re becoming. Let disorder do its work—it’s not breaking you, it’s reshaping you for what’s next.

Robin Elliott Copyright 2025

Personal Development